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Adopted Adult Issues in a Love Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences being adopted and its effects on an adult love-life. Adoption is a powerful experience that can complicate a person’s self-esteem and expectations in love. |
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Asian Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses exclusively on personal experiences of Asian dating and love relationships. The influences of Asian culture on finding love, committing to love, and sustaining love are important areas of discussion. |
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Balancing Work & Love Chatroom |
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In our culture many people overemphasize work when their love-lives are not satisfying. This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of being “over-worked and under-loved” and what to do about it. |
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Bisexual Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses exclusively on personal experiences of bisexual love relationships. The issues involved in finding, committing to, and sustaining a bisexual love-life are explored. |
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Black Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom is exclusively for Black men and women and focuses on personal experiences of dating, commitment, and love relationships in the Black community. Cultural and familial issues that complicate a Black person’s love-life are primary topics of discussion. |
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Commitment Problems Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of difficulty making a commitment or being with someone who is having difficulty making a commitment. We focus on the steps required to challenge commitment fears, and what decisions need to be made when in love with someone who will not or cannot commit. |
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Communicating Feelings in a Love Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on the importance of sharing your feelings in a love relationship. Once feelings become conscious and expressed it is a shorter step to sharing them with the people involved. |
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Compulsive Pornography Use & Your Love-Life Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses exclusively on personal experiences of pornography use that have reached addictive proportions and are interfering with obtaining and/or sustaining a healthy and satisfying love-life. |
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Coping With a Broken Heart Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences breaking up with a lover and encourages participants to share their “broken heart” experiences and better understand their own individual experience of loss. |
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Coping With Jealousy Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences coping with jealousy in a love relationship and clarifying the psychological issues and decisions involved. |
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Coping With Loneliness Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of loneliness. Our emphasis is on obtaining support through constructive sharing of this difficult feeling, realistic exploration of its meaning, and ways of coping with its occurrence. |
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Coping With the Death of a Partner Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of losing a lover through death by illness or accident. A conscious understanding and acceptance of the grief process involved is essential to a healthy recovery from the expected or unexpected death of a lover. |
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Coping With the Feeling of Falling in Love Chatroom |
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This chatroom is devoted to sharing personal experiences of falling in love. We provide participants with an opportunity to share their experiences with others so that the best possible judgments and decisions can be made to guide whatever actions are taken. |
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Cyber-Sexual Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experience in cyber-sex relationships. We explore whether cyber-sex relationships promote interpersonal intimacy or compulsive and addictive sexual behavior. |
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Dating Anxiety Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of anxiety, worry, and fear before and during a date. Articulating the experience of anxiety about dating, consciously identifying the factors involved, and reviewing personal dating choices is an effective way of increasing confidence in dating. |
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Dating in Your 20s Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences dating in your 20s. The energy and experimentation of this decade along with experiences of first love and heartbreak are major themes of discussion. Addressing the need to separate from family of origin influences and the effects on your love-life are an important focus. |
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Dating in Your 30s Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences dating in your 30s. The impact of advancing age and concern with one’s future on love-life experiences are an important topic of discussion. |
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Dating in Your 40s Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences dating in your 40s. Middle-age realities and pressures to make significant and meaningful changes in one’s
love-life are major influences during this decade.
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Dating in Your 50s Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences dating in your 50s. This can be a decade of resignation originating from too many love-life disappointments requiring a rekindling of curiosity and interest in love. |
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Dating in Your 60s+ Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences dating in your 60s and beyond. Understanding the impact of what is expected of older people, what older people expect of themselves, and its effect on an older person’s vision of love and intimacy. |
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Dating Skills Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on the “skills” required to increase the probability of making one’s dating experiences a success. The chatroom leader uses each chatroom participant’s personal experiences of dating as a springboard from which to teach personally relevant dating skills. |
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Dishonesty in a Love Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of dishonesty in a love relationship. Whether you are being lied to or doing the lying we address this problem from both sides. Honesty is fundamental to love. |
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Divorce Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of divorce starting with the
pre-divorce relationship, breaking-up, emotional issues involved in negotiating the division of assets, and surviving the legal process.
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Ending a Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences ending an “expired” relationship. We offer a supportive chatroom to share personal experiences and obtain the professional feedback needed to live through this difficult experience in the healthiest way possible. |
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Fertility & Reproductive Concerns Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of being unable to conceive a child and its effects on your love-life. Our emphasis is on sharing feelings with others while exploring the options available for understanding and constructively coping with this experience of loss. |
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Gay Men’s Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom is exclusively for gay men and focuses on personal experiences of gay dating and the formation of healthy gay relationships. Sharing disappointments and successes, and learning about gay love relations is an effective way of encouraging an intimate gay life-style and healthy gay love-life. |
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Hispanic Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses exclusively on personal experiences of Hispanic men and women looking for, committing to, and sustaining a love relationship in the Hispanic community. Cultural and familial issues that complicate a Hispanic person’s love-life is a primary topic of discussion. |
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History of Abuse & Your Love-Life Chatroom |
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How does a personal history of trauma affect your present love-life? This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of trauma (emotional, physical & sexual) and their effects on your capacity to be in a healthy and satisfying love relationship. |
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Identifying Abusive Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of abuse and mistreatment in a love relationship. We review the steps involved in stopping love-life abuse starting with an identification of abuse, strengthening of self-esteem, and an understanding of personal conflicts about stopping abuse. |
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Improving Your Marriage Chatroom |
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What do you need to know to improve your marriage? This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of marriage and the personally relevant insights and actions that can be taken to reconnect individuals in a marital relationship. |
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Infidelity Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of infidelity in a love relationship. We work with the experience of being with someone who is “cheating” and the experience of “cheating.” Our aim is to help you understand the commitment issues on both sides of this love-life problem. |
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Internet Dating Chatroom |
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This chatroom is for people who are interested in using the internet as a dating tool. We focus on personal experiences of meeting and courting online, and the importance of learning how to use the internet to maximize satisfaction and minimize frustration and disappointment. |
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Inter-Racial Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of inter-racial dating and love relationships. The personal, familial, and cultural complexities of inter-racial dating are discussed from the vantage point of individual love-life experiences. |
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Jewish Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of looking for and sustaining a healthy love relationship influenced by Jewish culture and tradition, family, religious beliefs, and identity issues. |
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Lesbian Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses exclusively on personal experiences of lesbian dating, commitment, and the sustaining of a love relationship. Sharing disappointments, successes, and learning about lesbian love relationships is an effective way of encouraging an intimate lesbian life-style and healthy lesbian love-life. |
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Letting Go of Lost Lovers Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of lost love that are still interfering with your current love-life. Sharing feelings and understanding grief as a natural emotion helps a person let go. It is only when letting go of past love that room for new love emerges. |
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Living Single Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of living as a single man or woman. Living with yourself in healthier ways and the importance of cultivating true friendships are two important areas of discussion in this chatroom. |
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Long-Distance Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of loving someone who lives a significant distance away. We explore the difficulties and defensive advantages of being in a relationship with someone at a distance. |
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Love & the “Biological Clock” Chatroom |
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The “biological clock” refers to the aging process that determines fertility in a woman. This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of middle-aged women feeling the pressures of advancing limitations on their capacity to conceive a child. We explore ways of coping with these pressures when a woman is looking for love or in a committed love relationship with or without children. |
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Love Relationship in a Blended Family Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of single parents looking for, dating, or married to other single parents. We offer an opportunity to share experiences and learn new strategies of family living. |
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Love-Life & Family of Origin Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of family of origin influence on your love-life. The various ways families of origin affect your love-life choices, beliefs, feelings, and behavior are important to identify and work with. |
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Loving an Addicted Person Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of being in love with someone who has an addiction problem. Getting information to identify the problem, understanding codependency, and supporting the recovery process are important topics of discussion. |
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Marital Separation & Love-Life Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of marital separation where two people are living separate lives but are still married. The emotional effects of marital separation on attempts to live as a “separated single person”, find a lover, commit to a lover, or sustain another love relationship are a primary focus. |
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Meeting new people |
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Meeting new people |
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Men & the Communication of Feelings Chatroom |
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This chatroom is exclusively for men who are interested in exploring their personal ways of communicating emotion and need to communicate feelings more directly for greater intimacy. |
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Men’s Domestic Violence Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on providing an anonymous, supportive, open forum for men who have been or continue to be violent in a love relationship to address the personal emotional issues involved. Moving from physical aggressiveness to articulating more vulnerable emotions is a very important concern in this chatroom. |
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Men’s Only Chatroom |
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This chatroom is exclusively for men and is conducted by a male chatroom leader. Its focus is on the personal love-life experiences of men shared with other men for feedback in an anonymous chatroom. |
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Mixed Religion Dating & Relationships Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of mixed religion dating and love relationships. The personal, familial, and religious complexities of inter-religion dating and relationships are discussed from the vantage point of individual
love-life experiences.
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New Users Support |
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New Users Support |
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Older Men & Younger Women Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of love between older men and younger women and the psychological conflicts and issues involved. |
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Older Women & Younger Men Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of love between older women and younger men and the psychological conflicts and issues involved. |
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Physical Disability/Illness & Your Love-Life Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on the influences of chronic illness and/or disability on a love relationship. The ways a love-life is influenced by the self-esteem issues, body-image concerns, and feelings of inadequacy generated by physical limitation is an important area of discussion. |
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Relationship Problems Following Childbirth Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of difficulty in a relationship as a consequence of the birth of a new baby. We explore the psychological task of creatively being both a partner and parent at the same time. |
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Relationship Problems While Pregnant Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences of difficulty in a relationship as a consequence of pregnancy. Pregnancy can alter the underlying psychological conditions of need and dependency in a love relationship. |
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Setting Limits in a Love Relationship Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on the importance of “setting limits” on lovers who take advantage or attempt inappropriate control in a relationship. We work with personal experiences and the importance of consciously identifying the problem and developing the skills needed to correct it. |
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Sexual Issues in Love Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences that complicate sex in a love relationship. Our major concern in this chatroom is to consciously identify the complicating factors and encourage participants to talk about sex openly and constructively. |
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Single Parenting & Love-Life Chatroom |
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The focus in this chatrooms is on personal experiences as a single parent with one or more children. The emotional difficulties parenting responsibilities can create when trying to reestablish a love-life is a major concern. |
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Surviving a Breakup Chatroom |
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This chatroom focuses on personal experiences losing a love relationship. We encourage participants to share their break-up experiences to facilitate a continued resolution of loss and clarify what can be learned as a consequence of a break-up. |
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Weight Concerns & Your Love-Life Chatroom |
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The focus in this chatroom is on the relationship between weight issues and personal experiences of love. The extent to which self-esteem and body-image issues related to weight are manifested in a love relationship is an important area of discussion. |
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Women’s Only Chatroom |
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This chatroom is exclusively for women and is conducted by a female chatroom leader. The focus is on personal love-life experiences of women shared with other women for feedback in an anonymous chatroom. |
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